How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship – Being a jealous person can have some really negative effects in a relationship. It can lead to a perfectly good relationship going wrong and it can also lead to a lot of fights. Being a jealous person in relationships is bad due to losing your power to ask questions. I’ve been a jealous person and 9 times out of 10 you’re right about when your partner does something dodgy, but if you’ve been jealous and got it wrong a few times then all that happens when you ask if they’re lying or doing something behind your back they play the “ow your jealous or over thinking card” followed by and argument that you’ll end up apologizing for. To stop this happening to you it’s time to start reading this article. I’m going to teach you all you need to know to avoid this happening to you. – Sharing is caring, so be sure to share this article and help others. – Comment if you’ve got anything to add to this advice. – Mr Male Sex Toys Blog.

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

 

#1. Tell Yourself What Will Be Will Be

I used to be a really jealous person when it came to relationships. I found it hard to trust anyone and it made any relationship that I entered a bloody nightmare of lies, anger and fighting. It took me a serious relationship, work and the understanding of what will be, will be. Before I sorted myself out. You’ve got to understand that whether you’re the hottest guy in the world, or if you date a girl who’s worse looking than you, just about anything. There’s always a chance of your partner being un faithful, which does hurt, but that doesn’t mean it will happen. It just means that you need to prepare for the worse and just understand that if you think about it all day, all you’re doing is speeding up the process. Something that I learnt was the fact that the more you ask questions and know about your partners past, the more it kills you and makes you annoyed, never ask questions ;).

 

#2. Look At Yourself, People Are Usually Jealous Because The Way They Act

After a few more years of dating I realised that the most jealous people are the ones that flirt a lot and go looking for someone else while they’re in a relationship. If you’re being unfaithful or doing things without your partner that shouldn’t be happening then you’re going to have a much more jealous strike in your relationship. Look at yourself before you judge others.

 

#3. Music Will Help You Cope

One of the things that used to help me was happy music, not sad! Just put open a few happy tracks that help you feel good and enjoy the moment, the worse thing you can do is put sad/angry music on and let it dwell. You need happy, full of life music that’ll help you focus on being a bad-ass or an amazing person.

 

#4. Spend More Time Together

After living together for a while you’ll start knowing the other person, that’s when you’re really in a relationship, then it’s all about keeping your partner happy and content with you. If you’re being a good person, looking after then (without being a kiss ass), they’ll have no reason to do anything shady. Usually the only things you’ve got to do to top a girl cheating is: Don’t do it yourself Don’t talk about her doing it all the time Be there for her to talk too/Listen to her Be nice and sometimes thoughtful If you do them four things and have a normal relationship, she’ll not have a need to look for someone else.

 

#5. Live Your Life For You

My whole jealousy dynamic changed when I realized that my life is mine, I started planning what I’d do if it ever come to leaving my partner, I even planned a little get away and a new tasks that I’d add to my life just in-case it ever happened. This helped give a benefit to it. Start understanding that your life really is yours and as long as you life it for yourself you’ll have no problem killing that jealousy, you’ll also find that women follow you around.

 

#6. Take Control 

Start taking control of the situation. Don’t ever be controlling, but start living up to your word, my most annoying times are when I plan to go out and someone candles, now, I just have a back up and go with them, control the situation and always make it work for you. You always want to be the one who’s winning.

 

#7. Go Out More, It Helps You Meet New People

One of the best bits of advice I can give you is to get outside more. It stops you being alone left with your thoughts and it’ll help you grow out of the jealousy. If you have so much on your mind then it’s hard to be jealous, so always be going out, always give yourself something to do and always make sure you’re open to meeting new people.

 

#8. Don’t Take No Crap

Never let someone change you due to jealousy, but more importantly don’t EVER let someone use your insecurities against you. I’ve seen so many times men/women who’re jealous get to a point where their partner is making them look crazy by using the fact that they’re a jealous person against them. So never let someone trick you into not asking questions. This is one of the main reasons you should keep your mouth shut. I always say that telling someone not to cheat does nothing, but being a nice partner ads extreme guilt to the whole thing. Also getting them off before they go out usually does the job :O.

 

#9. Use The Energy To Do Something Amazing

Look jealousy is a very intense and strong energy, it can help you do amazing things, sometimes people put it into the energy they need to train and others use it to power though work, sometimes you can even use it to come up with an amazing idea.

 

#10.  Jealousy Can Be The Reason They Leave You

You need to understand that people leave people down to jealous, get out more, start a job, work harder, do something more with your time. The more you do the more you’ll achieve. Take jealousy away by filling your time with so much other stuff that you don’t have time to think about it. Do this and I guarantee the jealousy will stop.

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship – It really can be hard being a jealous person, but you’ve got to understand that you’re your worse enemy and the longer you let this happen the more destructive you’ll become in a relationship. Sharing is caring so please remember to share. – Comment if you need a chat or some advice. – Mr Male Sex Toys Blog.

How To Cope With Jealousy In A Relationship

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